WFH meant both work-from-home and work-for-home |
As
the nationwide lockdown began, a complete disappearance of maids plunged
middle class households into an unprecedented crisis. For most working women,
WFH soon came to mean both work-from-home and work-for-home. A friend told me
that her husband’s main contribution (during normal times) used to be the
regular grocery and veggie shopping and now he was just doing the dishes. As
she was praying for an early return of her maids, she was right in thinking
that a disproportionate burden of household work had fallen on her.
2001
Nobel laureate in economics, George Akerlof famously showed that when men do
all the outside work, they contribute on an average 10% to the household work.
But when their share of outside work falls, their share of housework never rises
to more than 37%.
In
fact, Indian women were not alone in their misery, it was widely reported that
during the lockdown, domestic violence has shot up globally. Since long ago I
read something about the condition of women during the Great Depression, I
decided to check out how their successors are dealing with the worst recession
since then.
In
recession, generally most job losses happen in male-dominated manufacturing and
construction. However, due to social distancing, this time a huge number of jobs
were lost in close contact professions and women dominate such jobs. 92% of
dental and medical assistants, 89% of home health aides, 89% of hair stylists,
and 80% of manicurists in the US are women. This is in addition to the job
losses in education, retail, hospitality etc where women have significant share
too. Overall, 60% of those who lost their jobs in the first two months were
women. This has been particularly hard for 15 million single mothers, many of
whom worked part-time and were the first to lose their jobs. As schools and day
care centres remained closed, it has put more demand on working women.
Great Depression for American women, on the other hand, was a catalyst for positive change. During the First World War, just a decade prior to the Depression, they gained entry into formal employment. Apart from teaching, they took up jobs in sales, as office secretaries, telephone operators and as clerks – soon these came to be known as ‘lace-collar’ jobs. During the Depression, at times their salaries were cut but mostly they managed to hold on to their jobs. But massive job losses in manufacturing adversely affected a very large proportion of working men. As a result, women became the primary earning member for many families.
Underpaid but employed, American working women in the 1930s |
Between 1930 and 1940, the number
of US women working outside their home actually increased from 10 million to 13
million. Far from looking at it as a progressive step, the contemporary
American society blamed them for robbing men of much-needed employment. Today
it appears impossible to believe but the US government had a formal policy of
not giving women any employment under the New Deal. And the government refused
to change this policy of completely banning women from public employment
programmes despite protests from the first lady, Eleanor Roosevelt.
Even as they managed to improve their position outside,
within the household, it created new friction. Losing their traditional status
as the sole breadwinner, husbands started feeling insecure. This insecurity put
a serious strain on marriages and family life became more acrimonious. Though
they spent more time together but to cut cost, American families took to
contraceptives in a big way. Household budgets were limited and at times,
people lived in extended families. Women tried hard to save money by every
possible means – sewing clothes for family, preserving fruits etc. And of
course they had to do most of the cleaning and washing too.
World
has moved a long way since the Great Depression but still a recession is more
difficult for women than men. And this is because they continue to share higher
burden of family/household work and in general, they face more difficulties
outside and get paid less. And this is true across the world.
In
fact Akerlof is not alone, economists and social scientists have been trying
for a long time to understand why despite rising education and employment
levels, women still continue to do more household work than men (when both have
equal stake in efficiently running the house). A number of empirical studies
show that not more than 10-30% women prefer home over career by nature (don’t
go by matrimonial ads) and an equal proportion of women prefer career over
home. So most women take up additional household work because either they feel
more responsible for running the household or they simply want to avoid
friction.
Another
friend, when she moved to the States many years back, noticed that the second
generation Indian girls were generally reluctant to marry boys from their own
community and the reason was not difficult to find. How much house work guys share
that is also a cultural trait (Indian women do more unpaid domestic and care
work than women of any country, except Kazakhstan). But things do change. In
the West, even in the 1970s, men did almost no housework. Today they do a lot
of cleaning and cooking though child care remains almost exclusively women’s
responsibility. Outside home, women’s work is far better recognized today but
parity eludes them even in the USA – for every one dollar a man earns, a woman
earns only 81 cents.
This lockdown has taught middle class Indians the value of household chores. Respect for maids has gone up considerably. A number of friends have promised to enhance their salaries. I do not know how many will keep that promise but definitely we are going to buy more robotic vacuum cleaners and such gadgets. A whole range of new cooks – more men but quite a few women too – made their kitchen debut recently. I guess a few are going to stick around as some men would remember their promise of helping their wives even after the lock down ends.
We know, cataclysmic events like the two World Wars and the Great Depression have fundamentally altered the traditional gender equation in the West. Will this lockdown prove to be a similar turning point for Indian middle class women?
We know, cataclysmic events like the two World Wars and the Great Depression have fundamentally altered the traditional gender equation in the West. Will this lockdown prove to be a similar turning point for Indian middle class women?
Loved the writeup for both your style and content. Also a topic very true and relevant and very close to my heart.
ReplyDeleteThank you!! I think this topic is now relevant to all of us, both men and women
DeleteLoved it as it depicts real picture. But i doubt this lockdown will make any substantial changes in our society. We cant change unless we adopt gender neutral parenting
ReplyDeleteThank you!! You are right about gender neutral parenting but it is never too late to change....as I wrote in the article, forget about the Great Depression (1930s), even as late as the 1970s, men in the US and UK hardly used to do any household work, today they do share a lot, especially when you compare to Indian men
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